The Silence of Tfmr: A Compassionate Guide to Terminating a Pregnancy for Medical Reasons - Paperback

by Rosanna Brown (Author)

"Rosanna's book is a powerful and moving account of her own devastating loss. . . . It will resonate and be a great comfort to many other bereaved parents." --Antenatal Results and Choices charity (ARC)

The Silence of TFMR is an essential, supportive, and informative guide to breaking the taboo surrounding TFMR and navigating one of the hardest choices a parent can make.

Author Rosanna Brown was 22 weeks pregnant with her son William when she had to terminate her pregnancy for medical reasons (TFMR). She shares her story, weaving it together with case studies from other parents and advice from healthcare experts--including guidance for those who carry to term following a diagnosis. The book explores the many facets of this experience:

• Diagnosis: 12- and 20-week scans, plus later diagnoses
• The end of your baby's life: the medical process and saying goodbye
• The emotional and physical aftermath: bodily changes, coping with trauma, returning to work, and receiving the postmortem
• Grieving together: your relationship with your partner, parenting other children, finding community, navigating subsequent pregnancies, and moving forward with happiness and fulfillment

With advice for parents, medical professionals, friends, family, and employers, The Silence of TFMR is a comprehensive guide to breaking the silence of TFMR--and rediscovering hope.

Author Biography

Rosanna Brown lost her baby to TFMR in 2023 and turned to writing to work through her loss. Through her writing, she has raised money for the hospital where she gave birth, and for charities such as ARC (Antenatal Results and Choices). Her first class honors degree was in English literature and media, and for more than twelve years, she worked as a secondary school English teacher. She is now devoted to using her words to support those going through TFMR.

For more information, see @thesilenceof_tfmr